In the journey of nurturing of our child, we need to be observant to spot any irregularities in our child’s behavior so that we are able to deal with the any problems faced by the child. How can we identify signs that may indicate a sexually abused child?
The signs of sexual abuse are difficult to detect, therefore most sexually abuse cases are not reported and undetected. Children tend to keep sexual abuse a secret as they are afraid. They are afraid that their parents will be very angry and upset with them. They are afraid that their parents will abandon them if they find out the truth. They are afraid that their parents will punish them. They are afraid because they are threatened not to tell anyone by the abuser. Usually boys are less likely to report an abuse than girls. If the abuser has a close relationship with the child and his family, the child most likely keep quiet about the abuse.
Signs that may indicate a sexually abused child :
- not wanting to go to school
- show a declining exam results
- afraid of the dark
- suffer from sleeping disorder
- display aggressive or dangerous behavior/actions such as running away from home, suicidal etc.
- fear of familiar people or places
- wearing layers of clothing
- showing sudden withdrawal and isolation from people
- depression, anxiety and extreme passivity
- fear of being touched, being in place or being alone
- self-distructive and hurt his own body
If you find that a child is displaying those signs, please don’t panic. Talk to your child to find out what’s bothering him/her. Do not force your child to talk, but lead him into talking. If you are still worried, get a professional (e.g. child psychologist) to help you. Listen to your child and be supportive. Reassure the child, “I believe you and I love you!”. Report the abuse to the local authority e.g. police and social welfare department. Take the child to the hospital for further examination. Be there for the child and go through the healing process together!
Prepare a safe environment to nurture our child from harm!
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